My friend.

[Don't Bother]

Hey all.

First, I want to say, that I'm back with ABC, and I love the new site, and I want to thank Tom, and all the others for the great work you've done.

Second, I have a problem, and it is big.

My friend, and former admin of this site (Tom will know who I am talking about), has apparently just had sex with a 14 year old girl who he has never mentioned before, but apparently they are mates.

I'm mega-worried. I dunno if they were safe or anything. Last week he got drunk at a party.

He's 13 FFS!

I'm confused, scared and angry. I cornered him last week and told him to stop all this silliness. He said he would and now THIS!

[TomBeasley]

Well he never seemed like that kind of guy to me.

I must admit that I am slightly worried as he has always come across as quite a naive guy, so I'm not sure they would have taken the necessary precautions and stuff. It also highlights the sheer stupidity of consuming enough alcohol at that age to get drunk as things like this are bound to happen, causing all sorts of problems later.

If he has indeed had sex, then there isn't much we can do now other than stick by him and hope that he was safe so won't be any repercussions. We also need to do everything in our power to make sure he doesn't do it again.

[Don't Bother]

He's gone completely off the handle this past week.

He didn't get drunk and have sex, he got drunk at an earlier party last week, it was last night he had sex.

Tom, I think I should go to his house and tell his parents?

[Shakti]

I wouldn't tell his parents, tbh. Stick by him, and look out for him. I mean, you both know him better than I do, obviously, so I'll back out now and wish you both good luck.

[TomBeasley]

Sept 2, 2009 13:24:28 GMT Don't Bother said:

He's gone completely off the handle this past week.

He didn't get drunk and have sex, he got drunk at an earlier party last week, it was last night he had sex.

Tom, I think I should go to his house and tell his parents?

Don't tell his parents. All that will do is mean he can't do anything he wants to do and he will pretty much hate you. Not good.

Just talk to him.