Major Dilemma

[Root Admin]

The identity of the various people involved in this problem, and the person who sent it to me will be kept secret. The names used are not real names.

Person Who Sent This To Me = Jim
Man Involved = Harry
Woman Involved = Sally

So, two of the people that Jim talks to on Skype: Harry and Sally are currently planning to meet up and have sex. Harry is 38 and Sally is 20 and has very recently split up with her husband. They have been having "cam to cam" sessions on Skype and are planning to meet up for sex soon. Harry is the sort of person who would record himself having sex and put it on the internet and Jim really does not want Sally to get mixed up in all this.

Jim has been trying to persuade Sally that she shouldn't do this, but she isn't having any of it.

What can Jim do?

[Root Admin]

This is a beast of a dilemma and there probably isn't a lot you can do about it.

However, if you can convince Sally that Harry isn't the kind of person she wants to be doing this with then you have a chance of stopping this happening. If you can make her sit back and think things out for a moment, then she may realise just how much of an idiot she is being and stop all this rubbish before it gets way out of hand.

[Richard]

Uhhhh PEADO!?


Or dodgy people from internet, i trust you guys as i know you are 13-15 =]

[crazer123]

yeah but when you get older age means alot less in things like this, and alot of women do actualy like older men as they have more experience and can give them more pleasure

[Root Admin]

Exactly what DC said.

As you get older, a lot less emphasis is placed on whether you know who these internet people are and whether you know exactly what you are doing when you go to meet up with these internet people.

[Richard]

...Danny Chambell?

[crazer123]

Daniel Cook, is my name.. ******* ***** is my game

guess that one, you never will... and im giving no clues

[callum]

I know it's a big dilemma. Do not pester her but just subtly ease it in. Tell her the facts and console her.

[.Yema]

Ouch.

Well obviously I think Jim should have a go at talking her out of it, maybe show her some sites/videos of previous similar cases. Panorama anyone?

After all it's incredibly dangerous to do anything like that, ever.

But then again what you've got to remember is that this Sally is seemingly 20 years of age, she should therefore be able to make her own decisions, and therefore may be less then impressed with Jim's dissuasion. If she isn't 20 though however, and is infact younger then you really do have a serious problem.

But remember he is 18 years older then her, would she really be /that/ keen?

[Root Admin]

Dec 7, 2008 23:30:03 GMT .Yema said:

Panorama anyone?

Lol. I remember the outpouring on CF after those episodes aired.

Good times.

[whiteshadow]

You guys are all fools =/

It's obvious that Sally is in the "rebound period"
This is the period in which a female (or male) enters after coming out of a relationship.
In this period the female (or male) will have no cares or worries about what she (or he) does in terms of sex or whatever. Its this period which is holding Sally to go ahead with this sex scheme. All you have to do is instead of nagging her, but be a close friend to her. Show her you care and that there are many of decent lads out there. Try to guide her rather then push her. Then everything will be ok.

[crazer123]

thats exactly what i thought tom, which is what i was trying to tell her... even though it was my main arguement, she didnt listen and just said that she knew what she was doing and that it was just sex

[whiteshadow]

but she doesn't know what she's doing and thats just it.
If you can't argue it into her head, let her go ahead with it and let her learn her mistake.
Just don't say "I told you so" at the end, be a true friend and say it's ok =]

[crazer123]

lol, tbh i dont give a shit anymore what she does... its up to her and im not going to get involved =/