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Post by damselindistress on Apr 7, 2009 21:21:07 GMT
Are you a people pleaser?
(I know I am. >_>;;;; )
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Post by Shakti on Apr 8, 2009 0:26:37 GMT
Yes. I care far more about others than I do about myself at times. For the people I care about, there is nothing I wouldn't do. I try my best to help people in general as well, because personally, I think if you can help someone, then you should. And also because I genuinely enjoy it. Knowing that you've cheered someone up, or helped with a problem is a great feeling.
Although, I'm not saying I let people walk all over me either. I've often being told how stubborn I can be at times and it's something I consider a good thing. Though others may disagree with me there... xP
Edit - Though other people seriously need to consider how their actions and words affect others before they say/do things. Taking a few seconds to think before you act would save a lot of pain and trouble. Not aimed at anyone on here btw, I just found it easier to word it when put like that.
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Post by iDesign on Apr 8, 2009 0:28:25 GMT
Oh erm... I guess because of my designery skills, yes, I do please people. Does that count?
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Post by damselindistress on Apr 8, 2009 6:17:08 GMT
Yes. I care far more about others than I do about myself at times. For the people I care about, there is nothing I wouldn't do. I try my best to help people in general as well, because personally, I think if you can help someone, then you should. And also because I genuinely enjoy it. Knowing that you've cheered someone up, or helped with a problem is a great feeling. Although, I'm not saying I let people walk all over me either. I've often being told how stubborn I can be at times and it's something I consider a good thing. Though others may disagree with me there... xP Edit - Though other people seriously need to consider how their actions and words affect others before they say/do things. Taking a few seconds to think before you act would save a lot of pain and trouble. Not aimed at anyone on here btw, I just found it easier to word it when put like that. I'm like you, except I let people walk all over me. I'm better about it than I used to be though. At least I actually express my opinions about things and argue about them sometimes now. I used to NEVER do that because I didn't want to upset others who may disagree with me. Usually, now, when I'm about to have an argument with someone, though, I just suddenly disappear because I can't handle it when people are upset with me. |
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Post by TomBeasley on Apr 8, 2009 16:03:03 GMT
I tend to make sure that what I say keeps the maximum number of people possible happy. I really dislike people who deliberately make others unhappy for their own enjoyment.
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Post by sobiteme on Apr 10, 2009 12:53:50 GMT
To an extend, with my friends and people I like I tend to try and do things to suit them and I usually change my plans to fit in with them as opposed to vice versa. I don't tend to do what most other people wnat though. Sometimes I don;t do things jsut cos I'm being stubborn or grumpy... =/ EDIT: And I sound like a horror there.. I'm not really that bad  It's more with my Dad |
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