Same problem, with a twist

[UrbanAngel]

Again, I'm stuck between two girls. But the thing is I go out with one of them

Girl 1: This is the girl I go out with, and is my first proper girlfriend, but I don't love her, but I don't want to hurt her either, plus our mums work together, so it'd be awkward whenever we ran into eachother, and I'm her first ever boyfriend and she really likes me. It's gotten to the point where I make excuses to hang out with my friends instead.

Girl 2: This is the girl I've loved since I saw first met her, 10 years ago. She's the most beautiful girl, funniest, sweetest girl I've ever seen or met. I know I'd much rather be with her cause I keep comparing my girlfriend to her. I managed to overcome my shyness and actually talk to her without getting really nervous and we're friends now, and every so often I catch her looking at me in this really wierd way and looking away when I see her. The problem is there's her ex, who all of her friends hate (me too, he's an a hole) and she wants to hate, but he was her first love and she's having a hard time getting over him, but she's told me that she hates him half the time. I have the same problem getting over her though, I've never been able to. Even if I thought I liked someone else I've always liked her more. I think that I really love her, it's not just that I want to go out with her, I want to be with her, protect her, make sure no one ever hurts her.

I really don't know what to do. That's a lie I do know exactly what to do but I'm scared to do it.

[Shakti]

I would say girl two sounds like the best option for you, but it sounds like you've already mind up your mind to me. Don't be scared, if you do it and it works out well, it sounds like things could work out very well for you. Even if it doesn't work out, you'll have known you tried, and you won't be spending time wondering about what could have happened had you said/done something. Whatever you decide to do, I hope things work out for you.

[TomBeasley]

You clearly want girl two more, so you are really wasting your time with girl one. You just have to let her down gently, saying that you really love this other person and that you don't want to hurt girl one.

[Braindead]

Girl 2, but whatever you do don't go behind girl 1's back! That would suck. As Tom, said let her down gently and then talk to girl 2.

[UrbanAngel]

I had everything planned, I broke it off with Girl 1, was really starting to hit it off with Girl 2, then yesterday I found out that half the school knows I like her and my friends have apparentaly told her how much I like her.

I managed to convince her they were lying and that I haven't liked her for years. I was gonna ask her out on thursday, practically the only time we're alone together. Now it's hit the fan and I can't ask her out now cause she looked pretty relievied when I told her it was lies.