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Post by spina on Jan 2, 2009 13:33:09 GMT
My uncle died nearly a year ago now. He was only 42, and he had a heart attack.
It's only just beginning to hit me, the magnitude. The fact that he's gone FOREVER
When we had family Christmas, I was sitting down, and I almost wanted to hear his voice, telling us to come out for a game of cricket or something.
I didn't feel this when he died, but 9-10 months down the track I feel it. Is this normal?
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Post by Evil Inclination on Jan 2, 2009 14:10:26 GMT
Of course. People deal with death in different ways, I've certainly done that before. ^_^ Just know that it's completely normal.  |
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Post by Root Admin on Jan 2, 2009 18:17:06 GMT
It is totally normal that you will feel it more at a time when you would normally see him as his absence is more noticeable. Death is something that, as teenagers, we struggle to comprehend fully.
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Post by Oli on Feb 3, 2009 19:09:28 GMT
You struggled to comprehend what had happened, you didn't want it to happen, so you start to grieve and realise more once the denial has gone. For you, it was realising he wasn't there at Christmas, which i reckon is the most common time for someone to start realising the magnitude of what's happened - if you need to talk to anyone, PM someone on here - or even better speak to someone in real life about it; they can give you so much help I'm sorry for your loss. |
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Post by whiteshadow on Feb 7, 2009 17:06:52 GMT
It just hit me... OUCH. =D sorry, lightening the mood no one is ever gone forever, they live on forever in your hearts. |
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Post by UrbanAngel on May 28, 2009 17:50:00 GMT
no one is ever gone forever, they live on forever in your hearts. Honestly, could that have been any cheesier? |
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Post by Shakti on May 29, 2009 14:17:14 GMT
no one is ever gone forever, they live on forever in your hearts. Honestly, could that have been any cheesier? It has an element of truth in it. |
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Post by lbb on Jun 7, 2009 11:38:15 GMT
Urban Angel we are trying to comfort someone not hurt them !
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